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The Nature of the Jockstrap Fetish
From the Journal of Psycho-Sexual
Perversion
Designed to support and protect male genitals during strenuous
activities, the athletic supporter, or jockstrap, has long been a
potent symbol of male athleticism and physical prowess. Consisting
of waist band, pouch, and leg straps, the supporter was once
ubiquitous in high school and college locker rooms--often a
mandatory part of a school gym uniform--but has since become more
or less irrelevant in an age of compression shorts and
spandex-enhanced underwear. For most boys growing up in the 1970s
or earlier, the tightly-binding athletic supporter was worn,
perhaps grudgingly, only when required for physical education
classes or sports programs. But for others, the jockstrap became a
sexual fetish. These boys found themselves strangely and
uncontrollable attracted to this piece of athletic gear, becoming
sexually aroused when wearing or looking at a supporter--many
experiencing their first ejaculation while masturbating with their
jockstraps. Such reactions were likely to cause confusion or guilt
for budding young men already grappling with the emotional and
physical changes of puberty, but despite the frequent shame and
guilt, boys who had developed this attachment to their athletic
supporters did not readily abandon their masturbatory behavior. In
fact, the fascination and erotic appeal of the jockstrap
frequently extended into their adult life.
As with other such paraphilias formed in youth, the specific
nature of a jockstrap fetish often goes unexamined by an adult
male who continues to receive strong sexual gratification from his
obsession, perhaps fearing that analysis might dim this source of
erotic power. But, clearly, understanding the origins of such a
potent fixation can only yield greater insight to the person as a
whole, and perhaps uncover or ultimately resolve psycho-sexual
conflicts that may have impacted the sexual development of the
fetishist. While the exact events and circumstances which
conspired to form a jockstrap fetish may be unique to each
individual, the psychological underpinnings of this condition
appear common to all. Based on interviews with adult males who
have maintained their jockstrap fetish across twenty or more
years, it has become clear that the impetus for this perversion
comes from three main factors: the social and personal attributes
associated with the athletic supporter, the physical sensation of
wearing one and, perhaps most importantly, the psychological
stress-reduction that is a by-product of this fetish.
Association.
Even before the first wearing of a jockstrap, most fetishists have
already developed strong associations with this piece of sports
equipment. These associations could come from the media, other
family members, friends, or situational encounters. Often the
initial awareness of a jockstrap can cement the subject's later
associations with it. One subject traces the roots of his interest
in athletic supporters back to pre-pubescent childhood. His
earliest memory of seeing an image of a supporter occurred at age
10, when he noticed a listing in a Sears catalog. That first
encounter shows the powerful male symbolism attached to this item:
I remember seeing an illustration of a boy
older than me, confident and strong, wearing a type of underwear
Id never seen before. It seemed to have a specific purpose, and
one that only a older boy would have a need for. It occurred to me
that once I started to wear an athletic supporter, I would pass
into this new age group, a step closer to manhood.
He goes on to reveal one of the key aspects of the jockstrap's
appeal:
What really turned me on was the fact that this
thing was clearly and specifically designed to hold a boy's dick
and balls. It called flagrant attention to an area of my body that
I'd learned to keep modestly, even shamefully, hidden away.
Another man remembers having found out at age 12 that he would be
required to wear an athletic supporter for physical education
class when he entered junior high in Fall. His interest in
jockstraps grew throughout the Summer.
Back then, newspapers ran back-to-school ads
that had pictures, drawings usually, of athletic supporters. I
couldn't wait to get my own supporter. I would scan through the
paper every day to see if there was an ad for a jockstrap, and
often there was at least one. The fact that this public medium
would actually print pictures of what I considered a sexual object
just made it all the more erotic. I so looked forward to seeing
these ads that I would often get aroused just seeing the newspaper
in the morning.
Besides these local ads, the athletic supporter has rarely been
featured in the media--certainly nowhere near the exposure of
female intimate clothing such as bras. But despite the virtual
media blackout of jockstrap discussion, the notion of the
jockstrap representing the ultimate in male energy is firmly
entrenched in the US cultural psyche. Men who participate in
sports are routinely labeled jocks, and such phrases as he's not
worthy to carry [sports figure's] jockstrap are common in sports
columns. Can anyone deny that football players--both in school and
professionally--represent the upper echelon of male virility and
sexual desirability? For boys struggling to form their own sense
of manhood, the notion that an athletic supporter is a proxy for
masculine assertiveness can be quite intriguing. And if male
authority figures are absent or infrequent in a boy's daily life,
then this substitute connection to manliness becomes even more
appealing. Thus the most likely candidate for jockstrap eroticism
may be a boy with a tenuous, remote relationship with his
father--amplified even more if the father is a former or current
athlete or extreme sports fan. The need for male bonding goes
unsatisfied, while the venue of athleticism is put on a pedestal;
the father loves sports figures more than his son. These boys can
never measure up to their fathers expectations because, so they
think, they are not enough of a jock. How better to resolve this
equation, than to give magical powers to the ultimate symbol of
male athleticism, the jockstrap. The strap provides the wearer
with the ability to vicariously become a male athlete by donning
the athlete's most personal piece of equipment; the wearer can
pretend to be close to an athlete, without having actual contact.
Wearing a jock, in effect, gets them closer to gaining their
father's esteem and closeness.
Sensation.
More than mere symbol, the athletic supporter provides a tactile
sensation for wearers that is both unique and curiously erogenous.
For the fetishist, the first donning of this sacred garment is
usually monumental and life changing. One man describes his first
encounter:
The weekend before I started junior high, my
mother came home carrying a paper bag and told me that she had
bought my gym outfitincluding the athletic supporter. I'd never
been more excited. She asked me if I knew how to wear it and I
said I'd figure it out, making a joke out of it. That night, after
the rest of the family went to bed, I opened the bag and pulled
out my prize, a box containing a Bike #10 Youth Model athletic
supporter. I pulled the jock out of the box and just couldnt
believe I was finally holding a jockstrap in my hands. I was
light-headed with a rush of intense pleasure and instantly felt my
dick come to life. Soon it was growing painfully hard, springing
right through the opening in my pajama bottoms. And all I had done
was to hold the jock in my hands.
The subject then remembers unfolding the supporter and holding it
up in front of him, inspecting the cotton pouch and especially the
one-inch leg straps that started at the waistband and traveled
down to the bottom of the pouch.
The moment I'd been waiting for, the moment
I'd fantasized about so often, had finally arrived. I pulled off my
pajamas and stood holding the supporter in front of my legs. I
slipped my left leg through the opening and felt the strap slide up
my leg, then stepped through the other opening. As I pulled the
jockstrap up, I felt an intense rush of pleasure, growing stronger
and stronger until I finally positioned the pouch over my erect
penis and felt the two leg straps tug into place under my butt
cheeks. I was now wearing a jockstrap! The tip of my rock-hard penis
extended above the 3-inch waistband as I turned to see myself in the
mirrored closet door. What I saw was a man, a virile athlete,
strapped and ready to compete. And then, for the very first time, I
felt a tingling, rippling sensation in my loins and soon shot a load
of cum into the air, splattering onto the mirror. It was the most
erotic moment of my life.
Without question, the athletic supporter provides a unique tactile
sensation: the jock tugs on one's privates and digs into the lower
realm of one's butt cheeks, while leaving the rest of the ass free
and clear. No other form of underwear so firmly grips the male sex
organs--the jock's cradling of the balls and cock is constant and
insistent, focusing the wearer's attention to this highly erogenous
part of his body. And then there's the straps. The defining element
of the jock, the straps add the icing to the erotic cake. Alluring
in multiple ways simultaneously, the two straps of an athletic
supporter provide visual, sensual, and psychological pleasure to
both wearer and observer. Unlike traditional underwear, which
encloses both front and back sides, the jock fully exposes the
wearer's rear. For a boy long used to having underwear cover him
completely, the first experience of wearing a jockstrap can feel
quite liberating. For a boy who has eroticized his anal region, this
exposure can be a sensual pleasure unto itself. And for a boy
experiencing guilt and shame about same-sex longings, the binding
straps can act to reinforce self-punishing impulses. Of course for
any onlooker, the straps help to emphasize strong, well-conditioned
thighs and frame an appealing ass.
Stress-reduction.
The curiously taboo nature of the jockstrap--never mentioned in
conversation, never advertised, never seen in public--only increases
its mystique, as if graven images of this icon were strictly
forbidden. The discomfort parents and even coaches have with
uttering its name (usually supporter, rarely jockstrap) lends a
further sense of unspeakable wonder. Because of the silent treatment
given this item, accurate information about the jockstrap is hard to
come by, prompting boys to fill in gaps on their own, often in
service of their own psychodynamic needs. Thus false notions of the
jockstrap's true function can arise, including the somewhat common
impression that a jock is primarily worn to hold down
erections--making it either a modesty device or, in the extreme, a
sexual impulse suppresser.
The fact that the jockstrap both calls attention to and conceals the
male anatomy lies at the heart of its strong appeal. For a boy
raised in a repressive home environment, with nudity perhaps
considered shameful and sex certainly never discussed, an item which
so flagrantly refers to the male sex organs is bound to catch his
interest. While regular underwear similarly focuses on the male
midsection, it is the jockstrap alone which screams out its function
of gripping tight the cock and balls.
Thus the jockstrap reduces two key psychological stresses: the fear
of castration and the fear of homosexuality. Castration anxiety is
common among boys with strong, and perhaps oppressive, mothers who
resent and attack their son's masculinity because of their own
conflicted relationship with men. Boys growing up with such mothers
may feel insecure in their manhood, and may unconsciously wish that
they didn't possess the undesirable organs. For them, the jockstrap
provides a convenient solution: it hides and suppresses the male
organ, making their groin appear free and clear of the offending
protuberances. The psychological stress of having male sex organs is
thus reduced by the cloth cloaking provided by the supporter, while
at the same time the hyper-maleness of the jock allows the boy
surreptitious access to his masculinity.
Likewise, for a boy either consciously or unconsciously confronting
his homosexuality, the jockstrap again functions as a psychological
stress-reducer. For these boys, the restrictive nature of the
supporter is a blessing: the jockstrap controls and conceals their
penis in situations where they would most fear having an unwanted
erection exposed--in the locker room and on the playing field, when
they're surrounded by other boys and having physical contact with
them. The jock also prevents any viewing of another boy's sex
organs, so a latent homosexual boy can stare longingly at a
supporter's pouch without having to acknowledge that he is drawn to
what lies beneath.
Fetish in adulthood.
What happens to the jockstrap fetishist when he enters adulthood?
Ironically, the jockstrap fetish often allows an individual to
progress into adulthood without confronting the issues that the
obsessive behavior has been successfully concealing. The athletic
supporter, then, is a crutch which allows the boy to reach manhood
while suppressing conflicting sexual desires. One subject reports
having had a sexual fetish for athletic supporters since the age of
10. He is currently married and considers himself bisexual, though
he has had sexual contact exclusively with women throughout his life
(intercourse with approximately 8 women before marriage, no
extra-marital affairs). Despite a moderately satisfying, if
infrequent, sexual relationship with his wife, the subject has
expressed a strong sexual attraction to physically fit adult men,
and satisfies this desire by way of masturbation, often via
Internet-related activities such as viewing of gay pornography and
real-time chat. This masturbatory activity is most frequently, but
not exclusively, tied to jockstrap imagery. The subject will bring
himself to climax while viewing photos of fit men either wearing
athletic supporters or engaging in homosexual acts while wearing
athletic supporters. He also participates in online chat rooms
frequented by other men sharing a similar fetish for sports gear,
where jockstrap-related discussion or sexually-charged role-playing
will result in a highly-satisfying ejaculation. This activity is
performed as often as four or five nights a week after his wife has
gone to sleep and without her knowledge. Such behavior is
common among heterosexually-aligned adult jockstrap fetishists and
allows the fetish to continue amidst a traditional married
lifestyle. For men who have adopted a homosexual orientation,
the jockstrap fetish is more easily integrated into their sexual
behavior, as the gay community readily accepts the athletic
supporter as an erotic icon.
For the adult male who has spent the majority of his life
obsessed with the athletic supporter, there is little likelihood
that such behavior will diminish. Such men will continue to
masturbate to images of jockstraps, involve the jock in their
sexual relations, and inevitably find themselves aroused by any and
all reference to the athletic supporter. A fetish so firmly
entrenched is not readily abandoned.
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